Why is it that so many people have difficulty giving compliments? This is especially true of men complimenting other men. As if telling someone they look nice is an invitation to a homosexual tryst. Not only do men generally not say nice things to each other, but often use the semi-insulting barb as a form of—warmth. Though women are somewhat better, they also seem to have trouble with compliments that go beyond hair or clothing. It's a pity really, because a simple compliment can make a person's day.